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Focal Point, Schmocal Point!
If you watch design shows on television, or read magazines about
design, or listen to lectures about conventional design, you will
always hear two words that should strike fear in your heart: Focal
Point.
I’ll be honest: I have no idea when the concept of focal
point was introduced to interior design vocabulary. My “gut”
tells me it was sometime in the late 1940s and early 1950s, when
post-war materialism reared its [ugly] head, and homes became “about”
their furnishings rather than their occupants.
Now, there is nothing wrong with something being highlighted, or
given the place of honor to enhance visibility. But, when one is
designing a room meant for multiple occupants, or with a designated
purpose (like dining, or entertaining, or sleeping/romance), YOU
DO NOT NEED A FOCAL POINT. The occupants are the foci (plural of
focus; check your Latin).
Décor should be about enhancing relationships, not replacing
them or substituting for them. Interior design should be about providing
a backdrop for interaction. Decorating should be about comfort,
convenience and cultivating communication. “Keeping up with
the Joneses,” impressing people, ostentation and hoarding
are not relevant to décor.
I’m sure we are all familiar with examples of designers who
decide (often arbitrarily) that a painting or a photograph or some
other piece of art will be “the” focal point of a room.
The sheer arbitration of the selection shines a light on the superficiality
of the activity. Instead of thinking in terms of how people will
use the room, instead of thinking how the objet d’art will
enhance the interactions of the inhabitants, instead of positioning
furniture to facilitate conversation and communication, all attention
is forced to whatever the focal point is. Even with some large scale
item, like a fireplace, we need to think about this: is it the rule
or the exception that we sit around watching the fire burn? It’s
the exception, and it’s often when we are alone. Why make
this the focal point?
Then we have the matter of the television/entertainment center.
It is the rise of the television in post-war America that led me
to my earlier comment about the timing of the use of “focal
point” in interior design. Our own memories and experiences,
coupled with old newsreels and nostalgic documentaries will clearly
illustrate that the television became the center of attention in
homes across America and eventually the rest of the world. Our lifestyles
adapted whole-hog to this “box” that occupied center
stage of our homes. TV dinners were invented. TV trays were invented
to hold them. Scheduling revolved around television programming.
Networks increased. Programming hours increased. Cable and satellite
options became available. VCRs (and later DVDs) became ubiquitous.
The constant barrage of images has taken its toll in terms of physical
health, mental health, and what can generally be termed “overstimulation.”
I will address this phenomenon in a future column, but I want to
use this idea to segue back to home décor.
Despite what seems to be an abundance of designers talking about
“zen-this” and “zen-that” (wait until you
read my column on THAT topic), we have a majority of design specialists
who seem to prefer a “more is better” approach. I just
call it “busy-ness,” and I consider it harmful on a
multitude of levels.
Perhaps the greatest harm of “busy-ness” is that it
encourages distraction and discourages focusing. Isn’t this
ironic, that in a time when the dominating decorating philosophy
virtually mandates the presence of a “focal point,”
that the resulting product yields a reduced ability to focus? Consider
that at least one nationally known interior designer pointed out
his cleverness in putting two focal points in a room that he designed.
Imagine having two foci in your living room, or your dining room:
just being in that room would be like watching a ping-pong game
or a tennis tournament, with one’s attention going back and
forth between the focal points, if indeed they function that way.
They don’t. If anything, focal points tend to establish a
theme, as they are used in general design context. This isn’t
necessarily true, however, because sometimes the “inspiration
piece” can be quite small (we can then discuss why we even
need an item to suggest a theme, but that’s yet another column).
What IS true, is that home décor is about relationships.
It’s about having an environment that enhances your lifestyle
and communication, NOT about BEING your lifestyle or a SUBSTITUTE
for communication. Home décor and interior design are backdrops
for your life. They are part of the path to better living, not the
goals in and of themselves.
Get it? Let me help you.
Now that we’ve abandoned the concept of “focal point”
in interior design, let’s celebrate! I’m ready for a
party.
American Artist Appreciation Month:
We must appreciate artists, American or otherwise, 12 months out
of the year! I use “artist” in the broadest sense, anyone
who uses creativity in some way. That includes painters, musicians
and writers, but also computer programmers, and maybe the manager
who finds a better way of attacking a problem, or maybe the sanitation
engineer (garbage person) who handles the route more efficiently.
They are all artists, so let’s appreciate them!
Brownies at Brunch Month: Frankly,
I’m back on my same old soapbox about not baking or using
the oven during the hot summer months. Brownies are a great addition
to brunch, but wait until the weather cools down! Celebrate by just
having brunch! It’s a dying art, but one that I would love
to help revive (start by serving the recipes in this month’s
Simple! Sensible! Sensational!® recipes).
National Eye Exam Month: Take care
of your eyes! Think of a life without colors and shapes. It’s
also Cataract Awareness Month, which
is yet another reminder to get regular eye exams.
Goat Cheese Month: I love goat cheese.
I celebrate its importance on a regular basis. Goat cheese can be
soft or firm, mild or robust. I particularly enjoy the products
of Cypress Grove (http://www.cypressgrovechevre.com/indulge.htm
) and Capriole Farms (http://www.capriolegoatcheese.com/
), so try to find them at your local fromagerie (here in Chicago,
I have long purchased cheeses at Binny’s Beverage Depot, but
my new favorite is The Cheese Stands Alone, near Wilson and Western
[4547 North Western, 773.293.3820]; Matt and Sarah will really help
you).
National Peach Month: Is National
Peach Month in July or August? It doesn’t matter ... just
eat peaches. Put them on salads as a first course. Mix them into
a salsa and drape it on your favorite poached or pan-seared meat
entrée. Enjoy sliced peaches macerated in marsala either
on their own or over pure vanilla ice cream (see my comments in
July’s Senses of Living® column on vanilla ice cream).
Sandwich Month: I know that I eat
a lot of sandwiches during the summer months (especially for breakfast),
mostly BLTs, and a variety of variations to take advantage the wealth
of delicious, in-season tomatoes (I also like grilled cheddar and
tomato sandwiches). I hope you’ll take advantage of these
no-cook or low-cook options during August.
National Water Quality Month: Right
now, there is a low of controversy about our nation’s (and
the world’s) water quality, and the amount of contaminants
considered safe. For more information, please visit the U. S. Environmental
Protection Agency site, www.epa.gov/OW/index.html
or the site of the Water Quality Association, www.wqa.org
. Educate yourself, and ACT!
National Smile Week: Can we ever
have too many smiles? I don’t think so. Let down your inhibitions
and smile your way through the second week of August, and then keep
doing it the rest of the year, and the rest of your life.
National Apple Week: Instead of
celebrating this holiday during the second week of August, I’ll
celebrate later in the year when I can make apple tarts and freeform
apple pies and baked apples and apple streudel. Please join me;
you won’t regret it. In the meantime, though, create an apple
salad with some lemon juice and fresh mint and maybe some toasted
walnuts and just a dash of salt … YUM! You can add some mayo
and chopped celery for a Waldorf Salad, and serve it over lettuce
leaves.
National Friendship Week: This commemoration,
recognized during the third week of August, reminds us of the importance
of our friends. I have the best friends in the world. They are generous,
supportive, and sharing, as well as intelligent, kind, talented
and highly-skilled. Always be grateful for your friends!
Once again, many dates in August are anniversaries
of independence days, flag days, and other patriotic events:
August 1 (Independence Day, Benin; National Day, Switzerland), August
2 (Anniversary of Uprising, Macedonia), August 3 (Independence Day,
Niger), August 4 (Independence Day, Burkina Faso), August 5 (Independence
Day, Jamaica; Flag Day, Japan), August 6 (Independence Day, Bolivia;
Independence Day, Central African Republic), August 7 (Independence
Day, Cote d'Ivoire), August 9 (Flag Day, Gabon; Independence Day,
Singapore), August 10 (Independence Day, Ecuador), August 11 (Independence
Day, Chad), August 13 (Independence Day, Central African Republic),
August 14 (Independence Day, Congo; Allegiance Day, Morocco; Independence
Day, Pakistan), August 15 (Independence Day, India; Liberation Day,
South Korea), August 17 (Independence Day, Gabon; Independence Day,
Indonesia), August 19 (Independence Day, Afghanistan), August 23
(Liberation Day, Laos; Liberation Day, Romania), August 24 (Independence
Day, Ukraine).
Now, in compiling the following list, I discovered an abundance
of what I shall categorize as “super-silly” holidays.
They are self-explanatory; I’ve refrained from commenting
unless it is REALLY important. And what is REALLY important is to
treat every day like a holiday! Do it!
August 1: Friendship Day; National Raspberry
Cream Pie (see July’s Senses of Living® column
for a discussion of Lammas/Lughnasadh celebrations).
August 2: National Ice Cream Sandwich Day;
National Mustard Day (first Saturday in August) and anniversary
of enactment by Congress of the first income tax (1861). Last year
I organized a trip to southern Wisconsin to include a trip to Mt.
Horeb’s Mustard Museum to coincide with National Mustard Day!
You can’t have too many condiments! If you are in the Mt.
Horeb area, visit them at 100 West Main St. (it’s free), or
visit www.mustardweb.com
or call 800.438.6878/608.437.3986 to order some of their hundreds
of delicious varieties (or call me if you want to plan your own
trip through southern Wisconsin, especially if you like Frank Lloyd
Wright’s architecture).
August 3: National Watermelon Day; National
Family Day (First Sunday of August).
August 4: Twins Day Festival; Friendship Day (see
also August 1); Champagne Day; Chocolate
Chip Day.
August 5: Sister’s Day.
August 6: Wiggle Your Toes Day; Peace Day; Root Beer Float Day.
August 7: Sea Serpent Day, Raspberries and Cream Day.
August 8: Sneak Some Zucchini Onto Your Neighbor's Porch Night;
Bonza Bottler Day (this is a wild excuse just to celebrate,
as it commemorates the date every month when the day and the date
are the same number [May 5, June 6, July 7, etc.]); Dollar Day,
the anniversary of the US dollar’s creation.
August 9: National Polka Festival.
August 10: Lazy Day; S’Mores Day.
August 11: Presidential Joke Day (I won’t go there).
August 12: Middle Child's Day.
August 13: Blame Someone Else Day; Left-Handers Day, an international
recognition declared in 1976 by Lefthanders International. My long-time
pal Lynne is a southpaw, and she has regaled me with horror stories
of her childhood when misguided teachers were convinced that lefthandedness
was an abnormality rather than one aspect of human natural variation.
Maybe that’s why most lefthanders I know are so comfortable
accepting homosexuality and other aspects of human variability as
natural and normal. August 13 is also “New” Obon Day,
the Japanese version of Samhain or Dia de los Muertos in Celtic
and Mexican cultures, respectively; August 16 is “Old”
Obon Day. Some will celebrate Obon Day in July, or in other parts
of August. The point is to be reverential to one’s ancestors.
Respect their wisdom.
August 14: National Creamsicle Day; Marshmallow
toasting Day.
August 15: National Relaxation Day; National Failures Day;
anniversary of Crisco’s development.
August 16: Bratwurst Festival; National
Homeless Animals’ Day (third Saturday of August).
August 17: National Thrift Shop Day
could have been started by me! My entire home is designed and decorated
using thrift shop (and yard sale) finds from all over America. This
reminds me the importance of the 4 R’s of earth-friendly living:
Recycle, Reduce, Reuse and Refuse. Although “refusing”
has the lightest environmental impact, reusing is a close second,
and that is what thrift shopping is all about (as well as supporting
the charities that often sponsor thrift/resale shops).
August 18: Bad Poetry Day.
August 19: Potato Day.
August 20: National Radio Day; National Lemonade Day.
August 21: National Spumoni Day.
August 22: Be An Angel Day.
August 23: National Spongecake Day.
August 24: Knife Day.
August 25: Kiss-And-Make-Up Day.
August 26: National Cherry Popsicle Day; Women’s Equality
Day (anniversary of women getting the right to vote via Amendment
19, approved in 1920).
August 27: Petroleum Day.
August 28: World Sauntering Day; Dream Day; National Cherry Turnover
Day
August 29: More Herbs, Less Salt Day (this has to date from
the 1970s, and I have WAY more alternatives to increasing flavor
than just adding herbs! Amateurs!)
August 30: National Toasted Marshmallow
Day (but see August 14); Rock &
Roll Day; Tomatina Day (on the last Wednesday of August,
in the town of Bunol, Spain, between the hours of 11am and 1pm,
during the week set aside to honor the Virgin Mary and Bunol’s
patron saint, San Luis Bertran, a tomato-based food fight takes
place, purportedly; go figure!).
August 31: National Trail Mix Day
Whether you have big celebrations, or little celebrations, or a
combination of both, I encourage you to celebrate the joys of life
daily. Every day I encounter less-than-joyous people, and I think
how wonderful it would be if these people would start celebrating
National Smile Week, and never stop.
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